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Published Date: February 22, 2008
By Hammad A. Kolarov, Staff writer


Nervous, with circles around her eyes, Sara couldn't look me in the eyes. With each new question, her body seemed to draw into itself. I wasn't surprised. Few in this conservative Muslim country will admit to what she was confessing. Even fewer would explain how they did it.

It was an year ago, when I first found out I was two weeks late. I got the at-home (pregnancy) test and did it at a friend's house. Then I called my boyfriend and panicked! I didn't know what to do, my family is more open than most, but there's a line: Me seeing a guy, and worse, being pregnant? No, I could not face them with this. So my boyfriend asked around and he found out about these pills. I researched on the internet and decided I had no other choice," the 22-yar-old college student explains.

What happened? "It worked," is all she will say. Afterwards, Sara's (not her real name) boyfriend broke up with her, telling her he wasn't okay with what she did. "As if I'm f***ing okay with it? You know?" she added angrily. "You can go online, read everything you want, but it can't prepare you for what happens afterwards. You don't even want to consider the what ifs; not considering the what ifs is what put me in that situation.

But when I was there, I felt horrible because on TV you always see women being able to tell their family about it. It doesn't matter what the outcome of the discussion is, but remaining silent about it is the worst part! Being alone, sure I had my best friends, but it's not the same, there was, and still is, the fear of people finding out?

This young lady, who requested that her name and nationality not be revealed, is one among a growing number of women in Kuwait who suffer in silence. Among younger Kuwaitis and expats, dating and sexual relations have become increasingly common. While still not accepted publicly, dating and sex are widespread. More teenage and unwanted pregnancies are unintended consequences.

But the taboo against unmarried sex and unwanted pregnancies remains so strong that, despite the changing relationship trends, many young women are turning to back alleys or self-induced abortions as their only solution. Legally, a woman in Kuwait can only have an abortion if it is medically proven that the pregnancy is life threatening or that the child will be born with serious birth defects.

Pregnancy out of wedlock is also illegal and children born out of wedlock in Kuwait do not enjoy equal rights. Unmarried pregnant women face the risk of being stigmatized. Indeed, even talking about the issue is taboo. No one interviewed for this article wanted their full identities to be revealed.

If someone is caught aborting their own pregnancy, or assisting someone in the act, they will be heavily fined and even face time in prison. More importantly, in a small country as this, they will be shunned by society and possibly even harassed or harmed by male members of their own family. That's why many young women today are turning to self-induced abortions. Several drugs on the market can help this process and some are available in Kuwait. In fact, obtaining abortion inducing drugs is quite easy.

Posing as a customer, Kuwait Times sent a reporter to buy the popularly known 'abortion pill'. A foreigner in his late 20s offered them for sale. He provided details on the medication and instructions on usage. When asked about the risks, the man said that if the instructions were followed properly, there were no risks involved. "I've never heard of this causing anyone any problems, it doesn't hurt at all," he said.

But that wasn't the truth. According to medical literature on the subject, such medication is used during normal chemical abortions. However, when someone attempts self abortion, it can result in hemorrhage. In case of failure, serious birth defects could take place.

Many young women would rather risk death than let anyone, especially family or friends, find out about their unwanted pregnancy. The taboo is hard to break. Coupled with the strict Islamic prohibition against unmarried sex is the tribal issue of upholding family honor.

Once your reputation is ruined, that could be like the end of your world. If opened up to my family with that, I don't know how they would react, and I don't want to find out," says one female Kuwaiti college student in Kuwait. "It's the fear that blinds people into making these kinds of choices, we just have to remove the fear." But the fear is reasonable. Fathers and brothers, especially among the more conservative, tribal families, may react violently.

Some families would kill their daughters in this situation. We hear about it all the time, and with that kind of fear, this becomes a viable solution because on one hand, there is a high chance of the abortion working properly, and everything being okay, with only a small chance for death or severe bodily harm to happen. On the other hand, they may feel like they will be facing certain death or worse if they were to approach their families with this issue," explains an older foreign woman.

Indeed many families and much of the society prefer that the matter be handled within the family. What happens to the woman involved is the concern of the father and brothers, not outsiders like doctors or the police. "If people make mistakes this big, they deserve whatever happens," argues Nasser. "They should be afraid, they knew what would happen, but didn't think of that when they started to play with fire. People only learn after they are punished.

The biggest problem is that no sex education is received at all." Says Sara, a young Kuwaiti girl in her late teens. "I got my sex education through friends, and TV. My parents kept hinting at it, 'don't go out with boys' my mother keeps telling me. That's not sex education, that's just embarrassing." She added.

Many young Kuwaitis feel that the lack of any kind of proper sex education is harming society at a rate which people do not realize. Mohammed (not his real name), a sharply dressed man confessed, "My wife had to teach me everything about sex. I was ignorant, and it was deeply embarrassing at first. Thank God I met my wife when I did, I don't think any other woman would want an ignorant man." He told me this while his wife blushed. Of all the young people I spoke to, everyone agreed that sex education is vital, be it at home, or in school.



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Monday, 08 December 2008

Dec. 8 (Bloomberg) -- Five Blackwater Worldwide security guards were charged with manslaughter and weapons violations in the deaths of 14 Iraqi civilians in a hail of gunfire and explosives at a busy Baghdad intersection. The government said they displayed a disregard for human life.

The defendants chose to surrender to authorities in Utah today and were to appear in federal court in Salt Lake City. Government officials said at a news conference it intends to try them in Washington, where support for the war in Iraq isn’t likely to be as strong as in the western state.

A sixth Blackwater guard pleaded guilty last week to voluntary manslaughter and related charges, prosecutors said. The firearms charge against the five defendants carries a mandatory minimum prison term of 30 years and the penalty for manslaughter is 10 years.

The charges are “a reminder” that anyone who engages “in unprovoked attacks will be held accountable,” Assistant Attorney General Patrick Rowan said at a press conference. “Security guards were obligated to refrain from firing their powerful weapons except for necessary self-defense.”

The Blackwater company, which wasn’t charged in the case, said it “does not have access” to the evidence against its employees.

Within the Rules

“Based on the information available to us, we understand that these individuals acted within the rules set forth for them by the government and that no criminal violations occurred,” company spokeswoman Anne Tyrrell said in an e-mailed statement. “If, however, it is determined that an individual acted improperly, then Blackwater supports holding that person accountable.”

Blackwater is “extremely disappointed and surprised” to learn of the guilty plea by the sixth guard, Tyrrell said. If the government’s allegations are accurate, she said, “this individual gave false information to the company to conceal that behavior.”

Blackwater, based in Moyock, North Carolina, previously said its guards acted in self-defense while protecting a diplomatic convoy that came under attack.

The charges were announced today in Washington by the Justice Department and the FBI as officials unsealed an indictment in the case that was returned last week. The government accused the guards of causing the deaths of 14 unarmed civilians and injuring 20 others. Three other fatalities weren’t included in the charges.

Convoy Members

According to court documents, on Sept. 16, 2007, at least six members of a convoy opened fire with automatic weapons and grenade launchers on unarmed civilians near Nisur Square in Baghdad after a car bomb exploded. None of the victims were insurgents and many were shot while inside their cars as they attempted to flee the scene, the indictment said.

One victim was shot in the chest while standing in the street with his hands up, the government alleged.

“The individuals who were charged today displayed a blatant disregard for the core values of the United States Constitution and failed to adhere to the rule of law and the respect for human life,” said Joseph Persichini Jr., assistant director in charge at the FBI Washington Field Office.

Named in the indictment were Paul Slough, 29, of Keller, Texas; Nicholas Slatten, 24, of Sparta, Tennessee; Evan Liberty, 26, of Rochester, New Hampshire; Dustin Heard, 27, of Maryville, Tennessee; and Donald Ball, 26, of West Valley City, Utah.

The sixth guard who pleaded guilty was Jeremy Ridgeway, 35, of California. A sentencing date has not been set in his case.

Security Contractor

Employees at Blackwater, a private security contractor hired to protect State Department personnel, have been involved in at least 195 shooting incidents since 2005, firing the first shot more than 80 percent of the time, according to a report prepared last year by the House Oversight and Government Reform Committee. Twenty-three Blackwater employees have died in Iraq since 2003, according to U.S. Labor Department statistics.

U.S. Attorney Jeffrey Taylor emphasized that the indictment is “very narrow” and not directed against Blackwater itself.

“Six individual Blackwater guards have been charged with unjustified shootings,” Taylor said at today’s press conference. He said that there were 19 Blackwater guards on the team that was at the scene of last year’s killings and “most acted professionally, responsibly and honorably.”

Gates, Rice Memo

Defense Secretary Robert Gates and Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice, in a memorandum last year, spelled out procedures for closer oversight and accountability for almost 10,000 private security personnel in Iraq, most of them authorized to carry firearms.

The Justice Department last year said the guards could be prosecuted after news reports that State Department officials had promised immunity.

A new status-of-forces agreement signed by U.S. and Iraqi officials last month will eliminate contractors’ immunity from prosecution under Iraqi law. The agreement is expected to raise insurance and other costs for Blackwater and other contractors including KBR Inc. of Houston, DynCorp International Inc. of Falls Church, Virginia, and Fluor Corp. of Irving, Texas.

The case is U.S. v. Ridgeway, 08-cr-341, U.S. District Court, District of Columbia (Washington).



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